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Originally published in the Spring-Summer 2007 edition of 'Wedding Essentials'. Reprinted by permission of the Omaha World-Herald.

What About It Bob?

"My future husband has not rented the tuxedos yet and I feel this should have been done already. Is he having second thoughts about our marriage?

Many grooms take their time to complete their wedding planning responsibilities. It's generally not as big a priority to them as it is to their brides. You may want to get this task checked off your to-do list but try not to view this as a marriage commitment issue.

Try to be objective. Does he still have time to rent the tuxes? He probably does. Don't worry unless you see a pattern of problematic procrastination with other preparations for your wedding.

His actions, or in this case, inactions, would be a commitment concern. You would want to get to the bottom of the issues with a marriage relationship expert before saying "I do." - BT

 

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